Characteristics most intense first two weeks and again on anniversary.
Characteristics
Shortened Attention Span
Concentration Is Difficult
Decision-Making Is Impaired
Stunned, Disbelief
Resistant To Stimuli
Functioning Impeded
Denial
Time Confusion
Failure To Accept Reality
Second Phase: Search And Yearning
Characteristics dominant 2nd week through 4th month and again at anniversary date.
Characteristics
Sensitive To Stimuli
Anger/Guilt, Dreams
Restless/Impatient
Testing What Is Real
Irritability
Weight Gain/Loss
Sleeping Difficulty
Aching Arms
Preoccupation With The Deceased
Resentment
Bitterness
Time Confusion
Headaches
Lack Of Strength
Sighing
Third Phase: Disorientation
Characteristics dominant 5th through 9th month and again at anniversary.
Characteristics
Think "I'm Going Crazy"
Social Withdrawal
Disorganized
Forgetful
Depressed
Guilty
Insomnia
Anorexia
Weight Gain/Loss
Sense Of Failure
Sadness
Exhaustion
Difficulty In Concentration
Feels Ill - 'sick role'
Fourth Phase: Reorganization/Resolution
Characteristics dominant 18th through 24th month.
Characteristics
Sense To Release
Renewed Energy
Able To Make Decisions
Eating and Sleeping Habits Re-Established
Able To Make Decisions
Increased Awareness Of Self-Esteem
Begin Planning For The Future
What Family And Friends Can Do:
Source: Bunny Whiteley, Perinatal Bereavement Program, Columbia Presbyterian Hospital
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