Police say the 22-year-old gave the teenager the Malibu rum on Friday. She has since been treated and released from a hospital.
Police say Spins Gymnastics Academy, in Port Jefferson, fired Lamensdorf over the incident.
Telephone messages left at the academy and Lamensdorf's Mount Sinai home Tuesday evening haven't immediately been returned.
Police aren't sure whether he has a lawyer.
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